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What Are the First Signs of Perimenopause? My Early Symptoms Explained

Updated: 6 days ago


Most people associate perimenopause with obvious symptoms like hot flashes or irregular periods.


But in my case, I didn’t notice any clear symptoms at all.


Instead, the first signs showed up in my health data and trackers—long before I would have recognised anything physically.


In this post, I’m sharing what changed, and why early perimenopause can begin before you feel anything at all.


What is Perimenopause?

Perimenopause is the transition phase before menopause, when sex hormone levels—especially estrogen and progesterone—begin to fluctuate.


It can start years before menopause, often in your late 30s or 40s, and the earliest changes aren’t always obvious.


In some cases, like mine, you may not feel symptoms at all—at least not at first.


Can Perimenopause Start Without Symptoms?

Yes, perimenopause can begin before noticeable symptoms appear.

Hormonal changes often happen gradually, and in the early stages, they may only show up as subtle patterns—like shifts in sleep, cycle length variations, or other more subtle health data—rather than physical symptoms you can clearly feel.


That’s exactly what I experienced.


The First Signs I Noticed that are not obvious (Through Data, Not Symptoms)

I didn’t wake up one day feeling different.

But over time, my trackers started telling a different story.


I’ve been tracking my physiology using an Oura ring since 2022, so I know my baseline very well.


Recently, I started to see small but consistent changes:

  • Lower heart rate variability (HRV)

  • Slightly higher resting heart rate

  • Slower recovery

  • Reduced resilience

  • Lower temperature rises in my luteal phase

Nothing dramatic. But enough to tell me something had shifted — despite no changes in my lifestyle.

My subtle first sign that something was changing.
My subtle first sign that something was changing.

No hot flushes. No insomnia. No emotional symptoms.


Just less buffer.


And this is exactly what so many of my clients say to me:

“I just don’t feel like myself anymore.”

Not unwell. Not burnt out. Just… less steady. Less able to bounce back.


Why Resilience Drops in Early Perimenopause

One of the earliest hormonal changes in perimenopause is a decline in progesterone — not estrogen.


Progesterone is produced after ovulation, and as ovulation becomes less consistent in your 40s, levels can drop.


This matters because progesterone has a calming effect on the brain. It converts into allopregnanolone, which enhances GABA activity — your nervous system’s main “relaxation” pathway.

Subtle signs of HRV dropping in January as my nervous system worked harder to stay balanced.
Subtle signs of HRV dropping in January as my nervous system worked harder to stay balanced.

When progesterone declines:


  • The nervous system becomes more reactive

  • Stress feels more intense

  • Recovery slows

  • HRV often decreases


This is why so many women experience that subtle but persistent feeling of being “off.”






IN EARLY PERIMENOPAUSE, Estrogen Isn’t Low — It’s Unbalanced

Early perimenopause isn’t usually about low estrogen. It’s about unopposed estrogen.


As progesterone drops, estrogen can fluctuate or remain relatively high without balance.


This can lead to:


  • Lower stress tolerance

  • Unstable energy

  • Lighter sleep

  • A body that feels harder to predict


Why Tracking Your Hormones Matters

To confirm what I suspected, I used a Mira hormone tracker.


This allows you to measure hormone patterns at home, including:

  • LH (luteinising hormone) — helps identify ovulation

  • FSH (follicle-stimulating hormone) — can begin to rise as ovarian signalling changes

  • Progesterone (via PdG)

  • Estrogen (via E3G)


Together, this gives you a real-time picture of:

  • Whether you’re ovulating

  • Whether progesterone rises properly after ovulation

  • How estrogen behaves across your cycle

  • How your brain-to-ovary signalling is shifting


It’s a tool I use regularly in clinical practice — supporting women with fertility, PCOS, endometriosis, and perimenopause, and I am proudly a Mira-approved practitioner.


It’s incredibly insightful, and in my experience, an amazing tool for helping women truly understand their hormone patterns in real time.

Mira tracker confirming my suspicions - showing unopposed estrogen and absence of ovulation post LH surge.
Mira tracker confirming my suspicions - showing unopposed estrogen and absence of ovulation post LH surge.


Within days, I saw:

  • Inconsistent ovulation

  • Low progesterone

  • Estrogen without proper balance


This confirmed early perimenopause — before symptoms appeared.








What I’m Doing to Support My Body

Perimenopause isn’t a problem to fix — it’s a physiological transition that can unmask underlying vulnerabilities, reduce resilience capacity, and calls for more personalised, tailored support.


Disclaimer: As a functional medicine practitioner, I’ve invested in extensive functional testing over the years and understand my own hormone patterns and physiology well. So the following approach is personalised and intentional and not something I would recommend copying blindly without context or professional guidance.


What I am doing:

Oura showing signs of my resilience recovering after my interventions.
Oura showing signs of my resilience recovering after my interventions.

1. Hormone Support (Carefully)

  • Low-dose pregnenolone (to support hormone production pathways)

  • Vitex to support ovulation and progesterone signalling

2. Nervous System First

  • Prioritising sleep

  • Avoiding overtraining

  • Building in more recovery

  • Supporting blood sugar balance

3. Botanical Support

Adding gentle plant-based support to help regulate the nervous system as progesterone declines.

4. Doubling-down on the Foundations

This is the non-negotiable layer — and often the most impactful.

  • Nutrient-dense, balanced meals

  • Consistent, quality sleep

  • Daily parasympathetic (rest-and-digest) activation

  • Regular movement with a focus on strength training (without overreaching)


Because in this phase, the basics aren’t basic — they’re everything.


The Key Takeaway

Perimenopause doesn’t always start with obvious symptoms.

Often, it begins with:

  • Lower resilience

  • Slower recovery

  • Feeling “not quite yourself”

You’re not imagining it. You’re not doing anything wrong.


Your body simply has less buffer than it used to — and that’s your signal to adjust support.


The Empowering Part

When you understand your body, you don’t have to wait for symptoms.

You can track. You can respond early. You can support your physiology before things escalate.


And that’s where real empowerment begins.

A Gentle Note From Me

If you’re reading this and thinking:

“What is actually going on with me?”

— you’re not alone.


Whether you’re curious about tracking with Oura or Mira,or you’re noticing that subtle shift and want help making sense of it…


I’m your girl.

Feel free to reach out — I’m always happy to help you understand your body a little better 🤍


When to Speak to a Doctor

If you’re noticing consistent changes—whether in how you feel or in your tracked data—it may be worth discussing them with a healthcare professional.


Tracking can help you spot patterns over time and have more informed conversations. Tools like Oura Ring and Mira Fertility Tracker generate reports that you can share with your practitioner for further interpretation.


I also work with prescribing doctors and can refer clients to practitioners who specialise in hormone replacement therapy (HRT), if/when appropriate.


If you’re curious about using wearables to help you track, I’ve shared my links below with practitioner discounts:

Oura - 10% off with this link Mira - use code 2WELLGAB15 for 20%



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Gaby Cabrera-Kimchi has been trained in functional medicine science and application and integrative health coaching and acts as a mentor and guide to help clients reach their own health goals by devising and implementing highly-individualised and sustainable lifestyle changes.

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